I use to hate it when people point out my flaws. But not anymore, I don't. You can say and think whatever you want. Waste your time if you must. But I'm not gonna do the same. The thing you always talk of as such that you never cared about, is actually what you most care of. People talk about other people because they're jealous. That's basic psychology. Or otherwise, they just have too much spare time, and really need to get a life.